Back to School Co-Parenting

South Jersey Child Custody Lawyers offer advice for back to school co-parenting. As summer starts to wind down, many divorced parents are beginning to prepare for the start of a new school year. A return to school schedules and responsibilities can result in added stress for many co-parents.

To help make back to school time go smoothly, and to create a successful school year for the whole family, family experts offer the following suggestions:

  • Make Communication a Priority

Children should be informed about changes the new school year will bring regarding living arrangements, visitation schedules, and extracurricular activities. Communicating this information together as a united front can be especially helpful in reinforcing to the children that everyone is on the same page about the changes.

Throughout the school year, co-parents should make an effort to keep each other informed about school issues, including test grades, lunch menus, and other information provided by the school. Obtaining multiple copies of schedules and school mailings can help maintain this vital communication between co-parents.

In certain cases, it also may be important to communicate directly with your child’s teacher about specific issues which affect your child’s learning, including behavioral problems, emotional difficulties, and other learning issues. It is important for both parents to agree on what information should be disclosed to the teacher or school.

  • Prepare Children for Upcoming Changes

Communication is just one way to prepare the children for upcoming school changes. Both parents also should be involved in the physical preparations necessary for the start of the school year, such as back to school shopping for clothes, uniforms, or school supplies. Offering to split the costs of school supplies, regardless of predetermined child support obligations, is a great opportunity to establish goodwill with your ex-spouse.

Establishing a regular routine also will help make back to school changes go smoother. Work together to create a plan for school transportation, extracurricular activities, inclement weather, and emergency situations. Begin to adjust your child’s bedtime and meal times as the summer comes to an end, to set them up for a successful first week of school.

  • Cooperate to Allow Both Parents to Attend School Events

Children need to feel support from both parents during the transition back to school. If both parents coordinate and cooperate properly, it is possible for both parents to be present at school activities such as the first day of school drop off, meet the teacher night, science fairs, or school concerts.

If there is a no contact order in place, or you are in a high-conflict relationship with your ex-spouse, these issues need to be addressed before the start of the school year to allow both parents to attend important school events.

  • Coordinate School Responsibilities

If both parents have made communication a priority, the coordination of school responsibilities naturally follows. Coordination includes helping each other remember the many responsibilities that arise during the school year, such as bringing the correct sports equipment to practice, encouraging a child to practice their musical instrument, and finishing homework and classroom assignments.

Creating a shared calendar which includes important school year dates, such as parent-teacher conferences, field trips, assignment due dates, and sports events, can help the entire family be involved in the child’s education.

South Jersey Child Custody Lawyers at the Burnham Law Group, LLC Assist with Co-Parenting Agreements

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